Cognitive Psycho

Ah, the instant rage reaction. That instinctual, all-too-human flare-up. Is it about justice? Morality? No. It's about the ego—your delicate, precious ego—which just can’t bear the slightest bruise. For some reason, we’re hardwired to believe that getting upset proves something about our importance or intelligence. Spoiler alert: It doesn’t. Your Reaction Is (Probably) About You, Not Them Here’s the thing about rage—when you react immediately, you aren’t channeling deep wisdom or insight. You’re simply airing out your insecurities, unresolved baggage, and a primal urge to be right. The ego hates being questioned, corrected, or worse yet, ignored. But here’s a daring thought: what if you aren't always right? What if your instant judgment isn’t divine, perfect, or even informed? Chances are, you’re reacting to an incomplete picture. Because guess what? You don’t know everything. The ego hates to admit this, which is why it insists on jumping into “fix it now” mode. But let’s get

So, you’ve noticed you might be a bit of a rage volcano. That little firework show happening in your brain each time someone breathes wrong? It’s time to address it, because—believe it or not—the world isn’t out to test your limits. 1. Cognitive Restructuring: Because Maybe Your Thoughts Aren't Golden Wisdom Your anger usually begins with a thought. No, it’s not always some profound truth you’ve stumbled upon; sometimes it’s a distorted reaction. The first rule here: recognize that just because you thought something, it doesn’t mean it’s accurate. Next time your inner Hulk emerges, pause and question: “Is this actually true, or am I jumping to a dramatic conclusion?” It turns out, people aren’t actually conspiring to ruin your life just because they cut you off in traffic. Cognitive restructuring is about rewiring those wild interpretations—yes, some of them are wildly off—to something that might pass for reality. Challenge yourself to look at other perspectives. How’s that person