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Gaslighting: A definition

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation where a person or group makes someone question their own reality, memory, or perceptions.   This term comes from the 1938 play “Gas Light” and its subsequent film adaptations, where a husband manipulates his wife into believing she is going insane by dimming the gas lights and denying it when she notices 1 2 . Here are some key points about gaslighting: Manipulation Tactics : Gaslighters often use lies, denial, and contradiction to make the victim doubt their own experiences. They might say things like, “That never happened,” or “You’re imagining things.” Psychological Impact : Victims of gaslighting can experience confusion, anxiety, depression, and a loss of self-esteem. Over time, they may become dependent on the gaslighter for their sense of reality 2 3 . Contexts : Gaslighting can occur in various relationships, including romantic, familial, and professional settings. It is often seen in abusive relationships where one person see

The Damage Caused by Narcissistic Abuse: A Guide to “Growth”

So, you've found yourself entangled with a narcissist. Congratulations! You’ve likely learned more about emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and soul-crushing criticism than you ever wanted to. But hey, at least you’re “growing,” right? Let’s unpack the “benefits” and damages of being on the receiving end of narcissistic abuse, where every insult is a “lesson,” and your suffering is just “personal development” in disguise. 1. The Gift of Gaslighting: Trust Issues for Life First, let’s talk about gaslighting. A narcissist’s favorite tool, gaslighting ensures you doubt your own reality. It’s a fun little game where, no matter what you see or feel, you’re always wrong, and they’re always right. Oh, what a gift they’ve given you! Now, thanks to them, you’ll be questioning every single thought and memory for the foreseeable future. You can barely trust your own mind anymore, but hey, at least you’ve got that “intellectual humility” nailed down. Insight #1: Reclaim Your Reality After a