So, you've found yourself entangled with a narcissist. Congratulations! You’ve likely learned more about emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and soul-crushing criticism than you ever wanted to. But hey, at least you’re “growing,” right? Let’s unpack the “benefits” and damages of being on the receiving end of narcissistic abuse, where every insult is a “lesson,” and your suffering is just “personal development” in disguise. 1. The Gift of Gaslighting: Trust Issues for Life First, let’s talk about gaslighting. A narcissist’s favorite tool, gaslighting ensures you doubt your own reality. It’s a fun little game where, no matter what you see or feel, you’re always wrong, and they’re always right. Oh, what a gift they’ve given you! Now, thanks to them, you’ll be questioning every single thought and memory for the foreseeable future. You can barely trust your own mind anymore, but hey, at least you’ve got that “intellectual humility” nailed down. Insight #1: Reclaim Your Reality After a