So, you’re wondering if your relationship is “healthy.” The fact you’re even asking should be a hint. But for the brave (or self-deluded) souls pressing on, here’s a blunt guide to checking if what you have is actually worth your time. 1. Do You Have Respect? (Or Is This Just a Power Game?) A relationship without respect is like a Ferrari without an engine. Sure, it looks good from the outside, but it’s not going anywhere. If the basic courtesy of respecting each other’s boundaries, goals, and quirks is missing, well, don’t expect your love life to go far. Respect is also about genuinely listening, not just nodding while you plot your next counter-argument. If every disagreement turns into a strategic battle for dominance, congratulations—you’re in a power struggle, not a relationship. Check yourself: Are you treating your partner as a person or just as a piece on your life chessboard? 2. Can You Have (Gasp) Real Conversations? Communication is hailed as the holy grail of relationships